Thursday, August 13, 2009

Oboruni

Oboruni. White person. Essentially, someone who sticks out like a sore thumb here. The object of many men's eye. A stranger. Me.

And that is exactly how I feel. Strange.

I have never lived abroad before. The most time I've spent in foreign countries was two weeks in Russia. Not that big.

This however, this is big. I've had no practice for this. I was just thrown into the ring to battle with conflicting emotions, new and exciting food and people, but most importantly, just the whole experience of living in a developing country. Which is exactly what Ghana is.
Ghana is not developed, but it is certainly in the process of it. There is poverty knocking at the door of the richest man in Ghana, who lives on my street. When a girl sees me talking on my cell phone while walking down the road, she extends her arm, begging for money, telling me she's hungry. Men and women do acrobatics on the beach and eat and regurgitate glass to try and amuse the wealthier folk who can actually enjoy a day relaxing on the beach.

Most families don't have running water, and if they do, it trickles. My shower each day consists of running a shower head over my body countless amounts of time to try and wash the dirt and grime that I've collected throughout the day walking to and from the university and other various places in the city of Accra. I don't think I will actually be fully clean until December when I come home and vigorously scrub all the dirt of my body with a horsehair brush.

Despite all of these weird adjustments that will take a while to fully make, I am just getting through this one day at a time. Each day is new and exciting. The learning curve is huge and I can't even fathom the type of person I will be come December.

2 comments:

Unknown said...

I think there is a possibility that you could look back at this, and wish you did everything you "wondered if you should do" or not.

When visiting these new places, I have found that folks are wanting, and enjoy when you ask them about their space in this world. They want to pose for pictures and see them on the back of the camera. Tell/gesture them to smile.

Take in all that you are offered --and a little bit more. Have fun; send email (or keep your blog updated).

Looking forward to some updates from the Dark Continent.

-JimC (jr)

Anonymous said...

I can't even begin to say how muuch your post reminded me of my travels to Haiti. I realize that I didn't live there but the taste of an experience that I got was so similar.
I think the best thing you can do on a day to day basis is just smile - and smile big. It makes you more comfortable, it shows people that you are the amiable and compassionate person that you are, and it can just ease any tension that may arise from your simple presence.
Soon you'll find your niche, and I can't wait for you to come back and teach me!